Cards 15 and 6
The Devil
The LoversLove and relationships are a normal part of life. But whenever there’s love, there’s attachment. And it’s this tying and holding on that can make us feel stifled and want something new, or sometimes cling on, wanting it to stay this way forever.
People with 15 and 6 tend to meet a lot of people, and they’re always communicating and building relationships. These range from friends, family, brothers and sisters, and elders to bosses and staff, and even lovers. That makes people with 15 and 6 friendly. They can talk to anyone and fit in anywhere. And because they meet so many people and have to keep up those relationships, they can be serious and keep their promises. When they make an appointment, they show up. When they say something, they do it. And when they find someone they love, they take love seriously and try to protect it and make it as good as it can be.
But because people with 15 and 6 meet so many people, it’s natural for them to find more than one person who feels right. People with 15 and 6 often run into relationship problems, whether caused by themselves or by their partner. Sometimes being so serious about the relationship can make your partner feel stifled, and jealousy and pressure can make the relationship worse.
On the other hand, if you find that the love you have isn’t worth it, or can’t go any further, you’re ready to walk away without hesitating.
Love can’t last if two people don’t understand each other. The easiest way to understand each other is to communicate: honest talk from both sides. Being serious can sometimes stop us from thinking about the other person, so we don’t talk to or ask our partner before we do something. Sometimes that seriousness is really jealousy, which shuts us off from talking, and that leads to a split later on.
Being serious and sincere about love is good, but too much of it turns into coldness and can be frightening. If you compare it to planting a tree, too much seriousness is no different from planting a tree in dry, barren ground. Wouldn’t it be better to soften that hardness and talk more? Or instead of softening it, why not share what you think with your partner? You might see another side of them.
Wouldn’t it be better if both of you could be serious about love in the same way? It would surely be easier than one of you trying alone.